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		<title>Three motivations for believing </title>
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					<description><![CDATA[There are three different motivations for belief, and it&#8217;s important to distinguish between them.&#160; 1) Belief because you think something&#8217;s true. For instance, you may think that the evidence supports the idea that you will eventually find love, or you may feel convinced by logical arguments you&#8217;ve heard in favor of god&#8217;s existence. 2) Belief [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>There are three different motivations for belief, and it&#8217;s important to distinguish between them.&nbsp;</p>



<p><strong>1) Belief because you think something&#8217;s true.</strong></p>



<p>For instance, you may think that the evidence supports the idea that you will eventually find love, or you may feel convinced by logical arguments you&#8217;ve heard in favor of god&#8217;s existence.</p>



<p><strong>2) Belief because you think it&#8217;s useful to believe.&nbsp;</strong></p>



<p>Regardless of whether you predict something&#8217;s true, you can predict that believing it will be more helpful than harmful to you in the long term, and so be motivated to believe for that pragmatic benefit.</p>



<p>For instance, you may intuit that you&#8217;ll be better off long-term believing that you will eventually find love (because that will make love more likely) or perceive that you&#8217;ll be happier believing in god (even if it turns out there is no god).</p>



<p><strong>3) Belief because it feels good in the moment.&nbsp;</strong></p>



<p>Regardless of whether it&#8217;s true or helpful to you in the long term, you may be motivated to believe something because it feels good right now (or prevents you from feeling bad).&nbsp;</p>



<p>For instance, you may feel comforted right now by thinking you&#8217;ll eventually find love or feel good in the moment, believing a god is watching over you.</p>



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<p><strong>Rationalists&nbsp;</strong>typically recommend striving to have your beliefs be of type 1: believing based on what&#8217;s most likely to be true.</p>



<p><strong>Pragmatists</strong>&nbsp;often recommend aiming for type 2 beliefs: believing based on what&#8217;s ultimately most useful to you.</p>



<p>I favor striving to have type 1 beliefs rather than type 2 beliefs, in part because I intrinsically value truth, but also because I think that for beliefs in category 2 that are *not* actually true, there are typically some beliefs in category 1 that will help you just as much, but which&nbsp;have the advantage of&nbsp;also&nbsp;being true.&nbsp;So often (but not always), there is a low cost to replacing beliefs from 2 with beliefs from 1 that have the added benefit of being true.</p>



<p>I also think that if you allow yourself&nbsp;to indiscriminately hold type 2 beliefs, it makes it hard to suddenly switch to rigorous truth-oriented thinking when it&#8217;s important to figure out the truth (e.g.,&nbsp;when you have to make a very important decision based on evidence).</p>



<p>On the other hand, many people have lots of type 3 beliefs, and all of us, myself included, have some type 3 beliefs. Whether you think that type 1 or type 2 beliefs are ultimately preferable, I think a valuable aspiration is to replace some of our type 3 beliefs with either 1s or 2s.</p>



<p>It&#8217;s very, very easy for us humans to delude ourselves based on what it feels good to believe at the moment because the reward cycle is so fast. Type 3 beliefs are immediately rewarding, incentivizing more such beliefs. But they are like the social media addiction version of believing, where you pursue what gives the greatest instantaneous reward rather than what&#8217;s actually good for you.</p>



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<p><em>This piece was first written on April 20, 2024, and first appeared on my website on May 7, 2024.</em></p>
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		<title>Ideology Eats Itself When Truth Becomes Stigmatized</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[A quick primer on how to be a genuinely good person who harms the world: 1: Start to think that one ideology you like &#8211; which contains genuine benefits, truths, and positive moral elements &#8211; might be the only valid perspective. 2: Surround yourself with believers until you&#8217;re convinced that your view is common and [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>A quick primer on how to be a genuinely good person who harms the world:</p>



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<p>1: Start to think that one ideology you like &#8211; which contains genuine benefits, truths, and positive moral elements &#8211; might be the only valid perspective.</p>



<p>2: Surround yourself with believers until you&#8217;re convinced that your view is common and normal.</p>



<p>3: Ignore your own doubts so that you can fit in better. Join in on chastising (and eventually ostracizing) insiders who doubt too much. Punish slightly more harshly than you feel is fair in order to prove that you are one of the good guys.</p>



<p>4: Since challenging the ideology is punished, pretend to believe more than you really do &#8211; contributing to the sense that almost everyone else has no doubts &#8211; in a self-reinforcing cycle.</p>



<p>5: Assume that since your view is obviously correct, normal, and morally good, those who strongly oppose your view are bad people.</p>



<p>6: Since you are good and they are bad, conclude that you, as the good guys, should try to destroy them (figuratively, or in extreme cases, literally).</p>



<p>7: But how can you tell who is bad? Decide that a set of beliefs that sound similar to the bad people&#8217;s beliefs are off-limits. Anyone who believes them is probably bad. In those cases, humane treatment is no longer necessary.</p>



<p>8: Even just spending too much time with one of the bad people, or speaking well of them, is morally suspect. Why would you do that if you weren&#8217;t bad too?</p>



<p>9: Unfortunately, some true beliefs were accidentally put on the &#8220;bad&#8221; side of the good/bad dividing line. Now there are true things that you would become a bad person for believing.</p>



<p>10: Because of that, you and your group must avoid looking at reality too closely, lest you become bad too.</p>



<p>11: If you start to notice something true that you&#8217;re not allowed to believe, look away quickly or contort reality to make it seem different than it is.</p>



<p>12: Intensify your self-delusion and your punishment of non-believers so that you can make sure that still more people in your group will delude themselves out of fear.</p>



<p>13: Start teaching children (before they are old enough to think for themselves) that your belief system is the only correct one, perpetuating the system for future generations.</p>



<p>14: Congratulations! You&#8217;ve succeeded at being a good person who harms the world. Your mostly good ideology has eaten itself and has become more bad than good.</p>



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<p>This has happened many times throughout history, and it will happen many more times. Watch out for this pattern so that you (and the people you love) don&#8217;t end up as &#8220;true believers&#8221; who do harm by accident.</p>



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<p><em>This piece was first written on August 7, 2020, and first appeared on this site on April 29, 2022.</em></p>
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