<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
	xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/"
	>

<channel>
	<title>inclusion &#8211; Spencer Greenberg</title>
	<atom:link href="https://www.spencergreenberg.com/tag/inclusion/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>https://www.spencergreenberg.com</link>
	<description></description>
	<lastBuildDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2025 20:57:48 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<language>en-US</language>
	<sy:updatePeriod>
	hourly	</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>
	1	</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0</generator>

<image>
	<url>https://i0.wp.com/www.spencergreenberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/05/cropped-icon.png?fit=32%2C32&#038;ssl=1</url>
	<title>inclusion &#8211; Spencer Greenberg</title>
	<link>https://www.spencergreenberg.com</link>
	<width>32</width>
	<height>32</height>
</image> 
<site xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">23753251</site>	<item>
		<title>Categorizing The Causes Of Bad Things In The World</title>
		<link>https://www.spencergreenberg.com/2025/11/4602/</link>
					<comments>https://www.spencergreenberg.com/2025/11/4602/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Spencer]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2025 20:41:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Essays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attention]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bias]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cognition]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[education]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[evil]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Expansion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[good]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[harm]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[inclusion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[judgment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[morality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Outsiders]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[preparation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Systems]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Training]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.spencergreenberg.com/?p=4602</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[What causes bad things? It sounds like a huge question, but maybe it&#8217;s not as big as it seems. Here&#8217;s my updated/improved list of high-level causes of bad things in the world. Note that these are not mutually exclusive categories. I&#8217;ve also added some potential solutions for each cause. I&#8217;d be interested to know: what [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">What causes bad things? It sounds like a huge question, but maybe it&#8217;s not as big as it seems. Here&#8217;s my updated/improved list of high-level causes of bad things in the world. Note that these are not mutually exclusive categories. I&#8217;ve also added some potential solutions for each cause.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I&#8217;d be interested to know: what is missing from my new list of causes of bad things and potential types of solutions? Thanks to those of you who commented on my prior version!</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Causes of bad things in the world:</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">—<br>1) EXTERNAL CAUSES</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">1i) Nature or evolution (e.g., malaria, cancer) -&gt; Potential solutions: technological development, such as medical cures</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">1ii) Bad luck (e.g., landslides, earthquakes, droughts) -&gt; charity, government programs providing social safety nets</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">1iii) Scarcity (e.g., insufficient food or water in an area) -&gt; migration away from high scarcity areas, technological development to increase food production</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">—<br>2) FAILINGS OF HUMAN NATURE</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">2i) Highly selfish actions by non-evil people (e.g., some of the crimes that are committed, some of the manipulation that occurs) -&gt; cultural norms discouraging selfishness, cultural norms to punish those taking highly selfish actions</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">2ii) Harmful actions taken in highly emotional, confused, or desperate mental states (e.g., crimes of passion, harmful, desperate reactions out of fear, harm caused during extreme mental illness) -&gt; widely available and effective mental health treatment, widespread education/training related to mental health and emotional regulation</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">2iii) Well-intentioned ideologues who are convinced that their simple but wrong model of the world is the absolute truth (e.g., some of the genocides and wars, many harmful yet well-intentioned policies) -&gt; rationality education/training, a robust culture of respectful disagreement and debate</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">2iv) Cognitive biases leading to actions with severe negative consequences (e.g., greatly misjudging whether a project will bring enough benefit to be worth the cost, excessive fear towards or devaluing of &#8216;othered&#8217; outsiders leading to mistreatment or harm to outsiders, lack of preparation for likely occurrences that are not salient) -&gt; rationality education/training, careful design of systems to counteract biases, strong moral norms of respect towards all, moral circle expansion</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">2v) Retaliation or revenge (e.g., cycles of retribution) -&gt; a culture of forgiveness, effective dispute resolution methods and institutions, reliable enforcement of laws</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">2vi) Evil people acting alone (e.g., serial murder, child abuse) -&gt; effective police forces, high crime clearance rates, enforcement of laws, scientific investigation into the root causes of evil</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">2vii) Evil people who rally supporters (e.g., some genocides and wars, some extractive government policies) -&gt; strong norms around truth telling and social punishment for lying, a robust culture of respectful disagreement and debate, a culture of empathy toward and acceptance of those who are different than you, a well-educated and informed citizenry, scientific investigation into the root causes of evil, a strong constitution, a strong independent judiciary, strong norms around maintaining freedom and independence of thought</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">—<br>3) CHALLENGES OF COORDINATION AND INFORMATION</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">3i) Negative-sum competition (e.g., fighting over food when there isn&#8217;t enough to go around) -&gt; technological innovation to increase abundance, thoroughly enforced laws forbidding negative-sum behaviors</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">3ii) Unintended side effects of actions that are not innately unethical (e.g., addiction caused by the invention of social media, new promising-seeming medical treatments that turn out to have horrendous side effects) -&gt; a robust and low-transaction cost systems for those who were harmed to be compensated by those who caused the harm, hard to undermine enforced regulation requiring organizations to ameliorate harms once they have been identified</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">3iii) Collective action problems and negative externalities caused by individually reasonable behavior (e.g., pollution, climate change, overuse of resources) -&gt; methods for assigning prices to negative externalities so that someone bears the cost, regulation to limit negative externalities</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">3iv) Prisoner&#8217;s dilemmas and difficulties of pre-commitment and coordination (e.g., arms races, such as with nuclear weapons) -&gt; technology to facilitate coordination and simultaneous action, public projects by governments and private donors</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">What other broad causes of bad things or potential types of solutions am I missing?</p>



<hr class="wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity"/>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>This piece was first written on November 2, 2025, and first appeared on my website on November 17, 2025.</em></p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://www.spencergreenberg.com/2025/11/4602/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">4602</post-id>	</item>
		<item>
		<title>How do we make our group conversations better?</title>
		<link>https://www.spencergreenberg.com/2024/11/how-do-we-make-our-group-conversations-better/</link>
					<comments>https://www.spencergreenberg.com/2024/11/how-do-we-make-our-group-conversations-better/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Admin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Nov 2024 04:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Essays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conversationalist]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[discussion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[domineering]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[extraversion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[group conversation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[group discussion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[groupthink]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[inclusion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[introversion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[social skills]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tangents]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[topics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[variety]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.spencergreenberg.com/?p=4192</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[While some group conversations are great (e.g., with close friends), a lot of group conversations are boring, the lowest common denominator, or hijacked by one talkative person. How can you make group conversations more interesting? Here&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve found to be useful: 1) Shrink the group The best group conversations typically happen (I claim) in [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">While some group conversations are great (e.g., with close friends), a lot of group conversations are boring, the lowest common denominator, or hijacked by one talkative person. How can you make group conversations more interesting?</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Here&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve found to be useful:</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><strong>1) Shrink the group</strong></p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The best group conversations typically happen (I claim) in groups of 3 to 5. If your group is bigger than that, you can split it into smaller groups (e.g., by engaging with the people closest to you). With 7, it&#8217;s hard to get a word in or stay on any thread.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><strong>2) Introduce a topic</strong></p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">If the group seems to be bored, an easy way to steer the conversation is to wait for a lull and then say, &#8220;I&#8217;d be curious to hear what the people in this group think about&#8230;&#8221; and then raise a topic that&#8217;s likely to be very interesting and relevant to folks there.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><strong>3) Invite an exceptional conversationalist</strong></p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Some people are very good at keeping everyone engaged. If you can, bring someone like that along who can make the discussions more interesting for everyone. Socially skilled extroverts who really care about others having fun are a good bet.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><strong>4) Leave out or inform the obliviously over-talkative</strong></p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Some people talk a lot but don&#8217;t pay attention to whether others are interested (e.g., extroverts who are narcissistic or who lack strong social perception). Just one can ruin a large group conversation (even if they&#8217;re fine in other settings). When they are well-meaning and are likely to take the feedback well, you can point out this tendency and hope they improve. If they are unlikely to want to hear the feedback or unlikely to take it well, you could simply not invite them to events focused on group conversation.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><strong>5) Encourage interesting introverts</strong></p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Some people have very interesting things to share but are quiet in group settings due to shyness or not wanting to draw attention to themselves. Involve them by asking for their perspective or directing questions to them (if you think they wouldn&#8217;t mind).</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><strong>6) Keep things on track</strong></p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Sometimes, a group conversation will be interesting, but then, suddenly, it gets derailed by someone&#8217;s stray comment that leads the group in a random direction. Consider jumping in to make a comment or ask a question related to the prior thread to return to the more interesting topic.</p>



<hr class="wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity"/>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I hope some of these ideas help you improve your next group conversation or dinner party!</p>



<hr class="wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity"/>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>This piece was first written on November 3, 2024, and first appeared on my website on November 7, 2024.</em></p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://www.spencergreenberg.com/2024/11/how-do-we-make-our-group-conversations-better/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">4192</post-id>	</item>
	</channel>
</rss>
